What women think that they want, and what they really respond to, are usually two different things. I think that women actually don’t know themselves that well.

They probably think that by saying “don’t put her on the pedestal” that you might be trying to say that you should put her down or something..

I think that’s just miscommunication.

PLUS: There are a lot of girls who feel they require being put on the pedestal by a fella.

There are a lot of different kinds of females, if you feel that the fella shouldn’t put the girl on the pedestal then you are looking for a girl who is more independent. In that case its alright advice, women should be treated equal..
Why you get a thumbs down:

Although with the way women often get treated in society- Its sort of understandable why some girls want a guy that’s interested in them to treat them with a little more respect and appreciation. –> to show they really mean it, not because they think they are so much better or anything… That’s WHY fellas have to do the chasing most of the time.

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